Sunday, September 5, 2010

The Blogging Project - Day Nine

A Photo I Took
I guess this is supposed to revolve around a photo I took. Hmmm, should I pick a person photo, the pups, a nature scene? Let me go through my photos really quick and pick something that I can talk about. Oh, here we go, my dad.

My dad is the best, ask anyone who knows him and they'll agree with me. This is all he needs to make him happy - his Broncos cap, a t-shirt, and a beer...although I believe at this point he was drinking water. My father had a rough upbringing, although if you ask him about it he'll tell you stories and just chuckle at the outcome. He was raised by my alcoholic grandmother and was in and out of the foster care system until my grandmother decided to sign him up for the Army at age 17. I thank my lucky stars that this actually happened. I think the Army saved my dad and his future.

My dad hardly ever complains. He was my grandfather's caretaker until the end, and sure, there were times when he was frustrated beyond belief, but he still did it. Married to my mom for 38 years a quite a feat in itself. (Don't get me wrong, I love my mother, but she's a hard woman to live with!) He worked his fingers to the bone to provide for his family, always picking the third shift because it paid more. He was the one that would tell me that he was proud of me, he even wrote me a letter when I went to college. Trying to keep the peace in my family is difficult, that was my job as a youngster and his job now that he's retired.

We have a special bond, I am his little girl, his 'Pumpkin', and I get him. If I can be just a tiny bit like my dad then I think I'll have accomplished something in life. That means that I grew up to be a kind, caring, hard working person that takes nothing for granted and sees the humor and greatness in all events that life gives us. My dad, my hero.

3 comments:

YZB said...

Your Dad seems like such a great guy. I hope to meet him someday!

The Sports Mama said...

I think this might be my favorite post of yours. Ever.

I love your dad. Always have, actually. I always knew that when I needed somewhere to go, your parents would be there. And your dad just accepted my need to be there, without a lot of explaining why.

"....kind, caring, hard working person that takes nothing for granted and sees the humor and greatness in all events that life gives us..."

Darlin', you are JUST like your dad. Love you!!!

Shanna May said...

Love this post! Makes me happy and makes me miss you so much.